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• Wannabecsi
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• 2022/08/09 20:14

I am a Fort Lee resident. I found out once before that a person from Korea used my address without my permission and later used my address without my permission to receive welfare benefits. I refrained from contacting the police or the welfare office because it is not a big town like New York. I just asked the person to stop using my address, and when my child cried because of the harassment, the police were called.
I have been absolutely careful since then, but now I have a very unpleasant experience with a mom friend of mine who was involved with my kids and we had a mutual friend who I had no choice but to hang out with at first, so please hear me out. Let's say her name is J. Our condo has amenities where people can get together, have barbecues, pools, etc., but J came over under the guise of a playdate for the kids. J came over on the pretext of having a play date with her kids, and since I couldn't open the door to this area without a digital key, I lent her the key. A few hours later, J had successfully lost the key and I was nearly in tears. Later that night I received a text message from him saying that he was sorry because his child had accidentally put the key in his pocket. I was relieved and got the key back a few days later, but for some reason the nagging bad feeling never went away.
On Memorial Day, this mutual friend of ours asked us to have a BBQ at our condo, so we did our best to prepare a BBQ for the kids' friends who were coming. Of course, J came too, and the kids returned first, leaving her alone. I was busy cleaning up and taking care of the kids when J asked me for the key again. 20 or 30 minutes later he didn't come back, which I thought was strange, but nothing happened and the day was over. A few days later I was going to the DMV and needed to bring my ID, so I was going to bring my passport and my green card, which I always keep with me, when I noticed that it was missing along with my credit card. I was going to take my passport and my green card, which I always keep with me, when I noticed that they were missing along with my credit card. I also thought that I should be very careful because I am the mother of a child's classmate. However, I later learned from another Korean mother that she was an illegal immigrant. I did some googling and found out that the indentityft consisting of illegal immigrants of Korean descent is a big problem. I am by no means anti-Korean or racist. But I would like to make sure that Japanese people like me who don't know such things in the US should be aware of it. Of course I have seen many fine Koreans. But unfortunately, there are many criminals among them. And their ways are very devious and egregious. It is easy to be easy to forgive them because they are Asian, but please keep in mind that their senses are basically completely different from Japanese people. And please do not invite people you do not know well to your house or premises.

• ウクライナ
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• 2022/03/16 09:49

Try WION, an app that allows you to listen to live and visible Ukrainian war information.

• Justin
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• 2021/07/19 18:18

Looks interesting

https://www.meetup.com/new-york-langroops-language-exchange/events/279566433

• riah
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• 2021/07/01 15:02

I saw on the news that it was 37 degrees in Central Park.
Seattle ・ Portland, Canada is also over 40 degrees.

They are going to run out of electricity if they don't save power.

I guess I'll just have to take a dip in the pool or take a shower ・ ・ ・ ？

• メリー
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• 2021/06/30 11:57

https://www.rover.com/blog/americas-most-popular-dog-breeds/

The most popular dog in New York right now is the Cockapoo, a combination of a cocker spaniel and poodle. Havanese and French ・ Bulldogs also seem to be as popular as ever.

Personally, I like Golden ・ Retrievers, but I can't keep them because I am not in a good environment to keep them ・ ・ ・

• cherry
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• 2021/06/21 16:28

Are people doing cryptocurrency for investment purposes ？ Is there any other use for it ？
I don't understand there are many different types.

• nina
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• 2021/06/11 15:07

I saw on the news that the restrictions will soon be almost completely removed. I am both happy and a little scared.

• 街ね子
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• 2021/06/02 18:42

This is a free topic forum. Please leave whatever you like.

• Anon
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• 2018/12/30 17:36

この両方の側面を持ってる人への対処法を教えて下さい。

●自分が全てで世の中の中心タイプ
自分が全てで世の中の中心タイプの人間は、まず自分がクズであることに気づいていない場合が多いです。
このタイプの人間は、自分の間違いを指摘されると激情する、周囲にあることないこと言いふらす等の子供じみた行動や言動が見受けられます。
基本的に人の話をあまり聞かず、意見した際に自分の意見を押し通そうとしてくる傾向にあるのが特徴で、ようは傲慢なのです。なので、思い通りにならないとキレますし、人を見下し、自分は注目されるべき人間だと思い込んでいますから、人前でも自信に溢れているのです。また、他人は利用するものといった考え方の持ち主なので、他人の成功が悔しくて憎くて仕方がないのです。

●ずる賢い偽善者タイプ
次はずる賢いタイプのクズです。
仕事上の手柄をいつの間にか自身の物にする、人を影で利用する。味方のふりをしてあっさり裏切るのがこの手のタイプです。
人間関係を作るのは比較的得意で、笑顔で振る舞いも良いことが多いので、何も知らない人からすると気づいたときには利用されていた、というパターンがよくあります。
例えば、震災の募金を集めているのに一方では、放射能があるから現地のお米を避ける、とか、障害者やマイノリティーのためのパレードに参加しつつ、他人の障害を言いふらし、少数派をDisるといったことを平気でするのがこのタイプ。一見正当な意見のように見えますが、自分の目的の為ならば手段を厭わないのがこの偽善者タイプです。これは利害関係で関わるとよく見えてるので、言っていることと行動が合っているのかを見極めましょう

• spring1125
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• 2018/10/29 22:30

来年ニューヨークへ旅行に行こうと考えています。
現地を案内してくれる日本人の方、もしくはネイティブの方と仲良くなりたいです。
2019年〜2020年の1月にまで行きたいです、それまでにメールなどで交流を図れればと思います。

旅行の目的は、海外で刺激を受けて今後との生活の活力にしたい、生の英語に触れたいなどです。

34歳、既婚、女性、英語は勉強中。
どうぞよろしくお願いします。