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    • 2024/04/21 (Sun)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #8


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or unable to argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ？

    This may be because of
    his or her moral harassment, which you are not aware of.

    In this 9th of a series of 10 articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Getting Children on Your Side

    Moral harassers are good on the outside, but they are also good at getting children on their side.

    Specifically, the following words and actions are seen.

    ・ Spewing bad words about his wife to his children
    ・ Defending his children when his wife is scolding them
    ・ Pointing out his wife's mistakes in front of his children
    ・ Showing himself as a better mother than his children
    ・ Leave his wife and go out with his children

    As children grow up, they are able to calmly judge their parents' words and actions.
    However, when they are still small, they may believe what they are told.

    Then it is hell for the wife.
    She feels isolated in the house, and most importantly, she feels as if her husband is taking her precious child.
    There is nothing more painful than this.

    Also, in the exact opposite pattern,
    a harassing husband may also act in a harassing manner towards his children.

    He may also force them to study or threaten them that he will not pay their school fees if they do not do what he says.

    By using this kind of "candy and whip," the harasser also controls the children.

    Once these family relationships become fixed, it is not easy to change them.

    Please contact us before it is too late.

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    • 2024/04/20 (Sat)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #7


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or feel that you cannot refute something that is being said to you in a terrible way ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of it, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    In this 7th of a series of 10 articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Appearances, lying （ Distorting the story ）

    Moral harassers play the role of a good husband and father on the outside.

    This can be very painful for the wife.
    Here are some such examples.

    Husband ： Hey, is it just a side dish from the supermarket for dinner tonight ？ You are a housewife, so
    you should at least cook dinner properly.

    My wife ： isn't feeling well today ・ ・ ・.

    Husband ： You keep making excuses like that. At least go buy something a little better.

    Wife ： With the amount of money you are giving me, I can't afford to be so extravagant.

    Husband ： You insult my earnings ！

    ＜ Later, at a drinking party with mutual friends ＞

    Husband ： My wife is really scary ～.
    She's a stay-at-home mom, but she doesn't cook, and when I tell her I want something better to eat, she
    says she can't buy it because you don't make enough money ！.

    my husband's friend ： that's pretty tough. I feel sorry for you too.

    Husband ： Well, I'm a kind man, so I can tolerate a wife like that.

    Everyone ： hahahahaha.

    Wife ： （ looks down and blushes ）

    Like this, the harasser husband is good at criticizing his wife in front of friends and
    emphasizing and distorting the story for that.

    Also, even if he does not criticize his wife, he plays the role of a very good husband and father,
    so that people around him may not believe him when he discusses his husband's moral harassment.

    It is very difficult to not be able to talk to those around you about your pain, or to have them not understand
    even if you do.

    Please do not suffer alone, but feel free to contact us through the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • 2024/04/19 (Fri)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #6


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or feel that you cannot refute something that is being said to you in a terrible way ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of it, but
    it may be because your partner is harassing you.

    In this sixth of a series of ten articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    He does not bend his opinion

    Wives who are victims of moral harassment often ask me the following questions.

    ・ My husband never bends his opinion
    ・ He keeps blaming me until I say 'yes'
    ・ Finally, for some reason I apologize.

    When couples have to discuss something or disagree,
    they usually concede to each other or change their positions each time.

    However, in the case of a harassing husband, there is no such thing as concession to his wife or accommodating her.

    Until the wife agrees with the husband, they will continue to talk unilaterally
    for an hour or two, even late at night.

    After repeating this, the wife feels that there is no point in saying anything, and that her rebuttal will only lengthen the discussion
    and she will stop giving her opinion.

    As the wife's own feelings that she has swallowed on the spot accumulate,
    they will eventually manifest themselves as physical illness and mental instability.

    Please do not worry alone, but feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • 2024/04/18 (Thu)

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    Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #5


    Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or unable to argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ？

    This may be because
    your partner is harassing you, but you are not aware of it.

    In this fifth of a series of ten articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Arguing right （ Frying ）

    Moral harasser husbands love to criticize their wives anyway.

    Therefore, he closely observes his wife's housework ・ and if there is anything she is not doing,
    he will tell her she is not doing this or that.

    Do you have any idea of the following?

    ・ Even when his wife is sick in bed, he tells her to "do her job as a housewife"
    ・ When he discusses his problems with friends or at work, he says "It's your fault"
    ・ He does not forgive even one failure
    ・ He always brings up his past of his wife's failures forever

    By nature, there are many things in life that are not perfect and cannot be explained by logic.

    When we are sick or not feeling well, we may neglect our housework ・ and childcare.

    It would be nice if he could look at his wife in this way and say, "We are human beings, and sometimes that happens.

    What is always done is taken for granted, and if he cannot do it even once, he blames you.

    By the way, it is a characteristic of the harasser husband to be harsh to others and kind to himself.

    Therefore, when he is sick or makes a mistake,
    he naturally asks his wife to follow up and understand.

    Normally, a wife would be able to point out that there is something wrong with her husband's attitude, but
    she loses that power when she is continuously subjected to moral harassment.

    Please do not worry alone, but feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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    • 2024/04/17 (Wed)

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    Perhaps a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Behaviors Part 4


    Do you feel that your marital relationship is not going well for some reason, or do you feel depressed or pained when talking to your partner? ？

    Perhaps you are not aware of it, but
    it may be due to your partner's moral harassment.

    In this fourth of a series of ten articles, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

    Denying his wife's humanity

    Moral harassers tend to focus on their status in society and how much money they make

    Therefore, they look down on housewives or wives who earn less than them.

    And he sometimes says the following words to his wife.

    ・ Don't talk big to me when you don't make much money
    ・ You are a scumbag
    ・ You are not a good mother
    ・ You can't do anything on your own
    ・ You are crazy
    ・ you're not developmentally disabled ？ see a psychiatrist

    if you point out something specific that you say or do,
    we can correct that behavior.

    But if they say something like this that negates our entire humanity,
    we can't say anything back.

    At first you may think, "I am not the person to be told such things." but
    the daily denial makes you think, "Who am I?

    Please feel free to contact us from the individual counseling below.

    https://rikon-terrace.com/counseling

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