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• 家族のためのADRセンター離婚テラス
• 105-0003 東京 港区 1-21-8-402 弁護士ビル
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Maybe a Morally Harassing Husband ？ Common Words and Actions #10

Do you ever feel depressed when you talk to your partner, or
feel that you cannot argue with him or her even though he or she says terrible things to you? ？

This may be because of
his or her moral harassment, which you may not be aware of.

In this 10th installment of a 10-part series, we will tell you the common words and actions of the harasser's husband.

It is the wife who changes the subject and apologizes at the end

Suppose the wife tells the harasser that she wants to express her opinion about something or wants him to stop.

However, when they discuss it, before long the topics are switched and
the end result is that the wife has to apologize.

Many harassing husbands are outspoken.
They also do not apologize or admit fault.
Therefore, even if they have something they need to apologize for,
they will change the subject and conclude that the wife is at fault.

For example, do you remember the following conversation?

My wife ： I need to talk to you.

Husband ： What the hell. Make it quick.

Wife ： I'm really tired of all the horrible things you say to me every day.
I can't do this anymore, will you divorce me?

Husband ： Divorce ？ I don't mind. What kind of terrible things, for example ？

Wife ： You always tell me in front of my daughter that I don't make enough money, I'm a bad cook and I'm worthless.

Husband ： Because it's true. You're a stay-at-home mom, you don't make any money, and on top of that, you can't cook to my satisfaction. I'm just telling the truth, so it's not your fault for making those facts ？

Wife ： Sure I'm a housewife, but I take care of the kids so you can work outside the home.

Husband ： Oh come on, parenting is not that great. I'll take over for you then.
I'll raise the kids, you go out and earn as much as I do.

Wife ： I can't do that on short notice.

Husband ： You're right. After all, you're living off my financial power.
I come home tired from work, don't waste my rest time talking nonsense.

Wife ： I'm sorry ・ ・ ・

Like this, I should have initiated divorce, but somehow I ended up apologizing.

After a lot of experiences like this, you can't even open your mouth because you think that anything you say is useless or
will be retorted back to you.

If you think your husband may be a harasser ？ please do not worry alone.


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